Is it just a nature that marriage is meant to be an abuse on women, in long term?

I wouldn't say that marriages are meant to be abuse one women. I believe that marriage is is meant be a because 2 people love each other and want to be with each other for the rest of our lives. it's human nature to want to be loved, and i believe that marriage is supposed to full-fill that, however in some cases, yes, marriage sucks for the women. Just like your grandma my mom had the same problem, she couldn't find a good enough job to support her children, so she stayed with my verbally abusive dad. I believe that's why its so important for women to be financially stable on their own BEFORE they get married, that way if something bad does happen they are able to leave. Marriage isn't the problem, our society is. Our society teaches us that women are inferior to men, and therefore women are put into situations where they are abused in some way or another and can't leave. We are taught that we should rely on the men in our lives, as opposed to be equal to them. We need to change our society, not marriage. The way women are thought of is the problem, the fact that women don't always go to college because they believe they are going to rely on a man the rest of their lives is the problem. I believe it's getting better because more women are going to college and stuff, but it is still a problem. yes marriage does have issues, but you gotta look at the root of the issues.. men being seen as superior to women.